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Psychotherapy can help the most successful people, and the
greatest survivors. It is a strength, not a weakness, to utilize
resources available to you to enhance your life. Real Men. Real
Depression: An estimated 6 million men in the U.S. have a
depressive disorder.
Men with depressive illness can’t just “snap out of it” or “pull
themselves together.” Depression is not a passing mood. If left
untreated, depression can last weeks, or even years.
Everyday pleasures, such as watching the game, playing with your
children, or even making love, can be drained of joy. Depression
brings pain and disruption not only to you, but to your family and
friends.
You may find it difficult to admit depressive symptoms and ask for
help. It’s important to remember that depression is a real,
treatable illness. It is nothing to be ashamed about.
When you to talk to friends, family, or co-workers about what you’re
experiencing, you will find initial relief from your isolation, and
you will feel encouraged to pursue a professional to help you get
back on your feet. Remember, help-seeking is a temporary step that
is not intended to foster dependency, but rather is designed to
create greater self-sufficiency in the long-term.

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Psychotherapy WorksPsychotherapy works! It treats any problem
that is mentally- or emotionally-based.*Psychotherapy is a very
useful way to alleviate symptoms and manage crises. It is also a very
effective preventative care measure: Psychotherapy is designed to educate
patients about themselves, their reactions to life stressors, and
effective coping skills. This education reduces the need for future care
in that patients develop their own curative skills.
For best results, some key factors need to be present:
Motivation: Psychotherapy works best when you are ready and
willing to look at yourself and how you live your life in relation to
others and the world around you.
• If you are prepared to challenge yourself, your beliefs, and your
behaviors, psychotherapy can provide you with your desired results.
• Psychotherapy can greatly assist you in getting to the root of why it
may be difficult to look at yourself critically.
• One of the primary goals in psychotherapy is to understand your
defense mechanisms and to explore their origins and purpose in your
life.
Insight: Psychotherapy works best the more self-understanding you
possess.
• Insight, self-awareness, self-understanding, and self-knowledge are
primary components to effective psychotherapy treatment.
• Your success in psychotherapy will depend on your ability to move from
intellectual insight (a rational awareness of your condition) to
emotional insight (the true, deep understanding of yourself).
Growth: Psychotherapy works best when you can recognize
inhibitors to your growth and work through them.
• During the psychotherapy process, you may recognize that some people
around you (e.g., friends, family) inadvertently restrict your growth.
Tension may result, as you grow in spite of the pressure you feel from
others holding you back.
• When discussed in the therapy setting, these points of tension can
serve as valuable opportunities for you to begin asserting healthier
boundaries with yourself and those around you.
Commitment: Psychotherapy works best when you commit to the
process.
• The largest percentage of people who drop out of therapy do so after
one session; those who return after the initial session tend to stay
until completion.
• Attending psychotherapy sessions regularly (typically once a week)
will keep your new internalized objective self-observer on task so you
can apply your new insights and ways of relating to others on a regular
basis.
Practice: Psychotherapy works best when you can practice new
behaviors in a safe, therapeutic environment.
• As part of your psychotherapy experience, you will learn new ways of
relating and experiencing yourself in relation to others in real time
with Dr. Gale.
*For more information on Mental Health and the effectiveness of
psychotherapy, please visit the
WebMD Mental Health Center
Professional Affiliations
American Psychological Association
California Psychological Association
San
Diego Psychological Association
- Newsletter Editor: The San Diego Psychologist
- Winner: CPA's 2008 Outstanding Newsletter of the Year Award
- Men’s Issues Committee Member
- Supervision Committee Member
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Dr. Gale's Practice.
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